'Joy' is one of the most divine qualities. But most of us don't possess it. We have our own grudges. We compare ourselves. We lose our identity. In the process we lose our 'Joyfulness' too.
You can learn 'Joy' from young children who haven't learned to worry or take themselves too seriously. They just keep on play, laugh and they enjoy the small things. It is one of our deepest spiritual nature. To have joy, we must leave our fear, insecurity and we must learn to unfold our life.
We all experience loss and sorrow, but life has to move on and in the end, Joy and laughter carries us. The joyfulness has to be enjoyed each day. It is not some illusion. Also don't worry about obstacles.
Just see them as small speed bumps and enjoy the ride. And to possess joy, never ever compare yourself with others. You have your own identity. You enjoy the small things, by which God has blessed you.
